Monday, January 18, 2016

Confessions: Disturbing Writer Moments

Writers come into contact with all sorts of people, but our readers are our favorites. We like hearing the thoughts others have on our work, both positive and negative. It helps us to be better writers. But what happens when interaction strays from books to other topics, and really fucked up things happen? 

Below are the confessions of several writers/people in the book industry. 

Audrey Lusk (Audiobook Voice):
     "Years ago when I did phone sex, this guy used to call and talk to all the girls (being for our five of us doing 3-4 voice each) and not wanting to talk dirty, but rather to ramble on about his ex girlfriend leaving him for a black guy, and why women preferred black guys over white guys.
     "He quickly 'unmasked' each of the other operators, catching them as being multiple voices. But, he never caught me since I made sure to give each of my personae different attitudes and opinions (being a writer and all).
     "This just meant that I got more of his calls as he unfolded this obsession with his ex, and how he had a scrapbook about her and her new boyfriend, and how he thought about her with him all the time... It was deeply weird, and if I'd had a clue who he was, I might have warned his ex to be very careful."

Morganna Williams (Erotica Author):
     "Mine was a man messaging and telling me I was the woman he'd been looking for, and we would be married. Then he sent a pic of him and his kid, and said, "Look, honey, it's our son." Yeah... Block, delete. Super creepy!"

Alice K Wayne (Author): 
     "I had a gay man read my books. He started messaging me to discuss them after, and I thought he was really cool. After a few days I felt like we had a pretty alright Internet friendship going. Then he tells me he has to make a confession. He says he's been fantasizing about me and feels ashamed for liking the sex in my books so much. He wants me to 'punish' him. He starts sending me messages telling me to 'make him hurt himself' and that he'll do anything I say--put any object inside himself I want, and hurt himself in any way that I say--and then send me photos or videos for proof. I could not hit the block button fast enough."

Bryce Calderwood (Erotica Author):
     "A woman PM'ed me out of the blue and wanted to be my muse. I asked her what she meant by that, and she sent me a picture of a crop, wanting to know if I wanted to use it on her. The whole episode was pretty icky."

Linda Sanders (Erotica Author):
     "A sixteen year old girl friended me on FaceBook, and on our first chat she sent me naked pictures, asking me when I wanted to meet her. I explained to her that it could mean trouble for both of us if I were to accept such a proposal, and that I thought she might be a fat guy in his mom's basement. Either way, I wasn't that desperate for a hook-up."

Anonymous (Fiction Author):
     "I met a guy who lived in my building. Nice guy. We talked from time to time. He always seemed to be heading out clubbing with his wife. One night he found out I wrote a book and said that I should write his biography (for free). Keep in mind, this was not a fighter pilot who ditched behind enemy lines and went on to become an astronaut. He was a relatively wealthy guy that worked and partied in equal amounts. Late one night he caught me in the lobby of my building, totally hammered. He had me sit and listen to a one hour drunken lecture on how: a) he is rich; b) kinky his wife is; and c) so many people will want to read about his life. He wanted me to start taking notes. It was an hour of my life I will never get back. I am also 75% sure I was propositioned for a three-some in the process. The autobiography project is currently stalled due to total lack of interest."

And ME, Angora Shade?

Besides the typical dick pic and marriage proposal, here are some of my WTF? and disturbing moments:
  1. I had a religious fanatic follow me on Twitter. He started preaching bible verse at me, claiming he trying to save my soul
  2. I was discussing the BDSM/fetish book "A Normal Girl" with a fan. He invited me to come over to his home, tie him up, and spank his penis in a fashion consistent with one of my more psychotic characters from the book. I politely declined, giving the excuse that I lived hundreds of miles from him, and that a spankable dick was in my immediate household if the spirit moved me
  3. I once had a random erotic fiction fan approach me to become his online Dominant. He said he would be a good little submissive bitch, take orders, and follow through with whatever I said (both online and in the real world). He even said he'd create a fan page for me, completely devoted to my published works. He caught me on an off day... I thanked him for his praise, but explained I didn't have the time to commit to such a relationship. 
  4. Recently a random new FaceBook "friend" (before saying hello, before getting to know me, before any kind of normal contact) PM'd me a sonnet of an extremely explicit nature, telling me what he could and was able to do to me and make me feel. I made sure to tell him off before blocking his ass. I'm now careful to screen through a profile, making sure there are multiple mutual friends, before accepting any FaceBook friend requests. 
Let's remember that writers are people too! We grocery shop, we do sports, have families and hobbies. We are not the characters in our stories, and most of us do not think, act, or feel in the same way as our characters. These WTF moments should never have happened, where the only saving grace is the amusement found in hindsight. Click for additional information on "Shit You Shouldn't Do On Social Media"

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